那天的我报说，乡下人不用护肤品，但皮肤仍好。城市的人拼命用护肤品，但皮肤依然快速老化，那是因为城市人的皮肤不断受压力影响。
城市的市场上出现越来越多减压配套，从按摩到SPA到户外活动到看心理医生... 我们赚的钱又流回到了别人的手里，还得不偿失地使自己青春不再。赚的钱还抽税，真是赔了夫人又折兵！可到底为什么我们还拼命赚钱呢？
其实我们都懂，还是加加减减还是有钱剩。赚了大钱，就有好日子过，有面子。只是失去的，都是intangible - 不能用钱来衡量的。你失去了自我，失去了陪家人教育小孩与另一半联络感情的时间，失去了自由，甚至有些人可能因此身心受创。如果能够选择，我真的不想工作，越来越失去自我，连说什么话都被管。诚实是从小的教育，但遇到工作上的某些人，你就是不可以老实。凌晨1点，老板娘简讯我说，要我从这件事好好学习，不准对他人提起。
其实，我认为两人都有错，若不是她说，我会做吗？我只错在不会说话而已。
无论如何，工作上的说话技巧，待人处事，与上司的相处技巧等我还得好好学习才行，不然我在社会上决不能呆久。
昨夜，我又哭了, 因为我想起爸爸。如果我告诉爸爸，爸爸一定会要我不工作了，然后再塞钱给我。爸爸的肩膀好宽好厚好踏实...但，我已经毕业了，不该成为家里的负累，而是带给他们好日子的女儿... 没关系的，我下个周末就可以见到爸爸妈妈了，我好想念他们...家里的日子最好，可以什么话都说，什么事都做，爸爸都让着我，给我欺负。哈！
我嚷着以后都不工作，王先生说，会有这么一天的！我也要做做梦~~~~
我还说，不如我们回去种菜去，日子可以挺逍遥吧？
让我好好享受这个凉凉的星期六早晨吧~ 朋友们，我这就出门去！
Saturday 31 July 2010
Friday 30 July 2010
祸从口出 & LADY BOSS
Another working week has just ended. I have been working very carefully for the past five days and I seriously thought life has been getting better. At least, I have built up good rapport with my lady boss. Life was great for the 4.5 days but the bad luck god get me into trouble when we were almost leaving, for one sentence from my mouth. No, I get my lady boss, GM and probably the whole company image into trouble. No enlarge effect. My lady boss cried. Tell me, how many of you equip with the capability to make your boss in tears? Seriously, I'm amazed by my competency.
As she said, it can be big or small. Pray hard that it is just a small matter and wont get everyone into trouble. *PRAY TO ALL GODS* I will stop eating all kind of meats and stick to vegetarian for my sins.
Can't I have the fine touch of the art of speaking? Being too honest is indeed the worst thing you should have while you are on job, esp you are facing outsiders. Too straight is wrong for many cases. Lady boss said: The work is not hard, it's the people that hard to handle. I fully understand by now. Working is not about the work, the people skill is the most important skill for your career.
ARGH~!! I just can't be a good employee nor a good speaking person....ARGH!!! Assessment of situation is the matter of one second before you anwser to any question throwns!!! Hope it's not the implication of 祸从口出~~! STRESS!! For my past 5 days, I spent an average of 2hours in car chit chatting with her each day. I may not know the burden of a manager, but I slowly know her. In fact, my lady boss is a kind, considerate and graceful people. She teaches primary student from 7-8am before coming to office; she never scold her children and students (poly) and she has many good characters that worth learning. But, somehow I just can't get along too well with her, when I do, for the past few days, matter happens and she bears for me.
GOOD LUCK FOR BOTH OF US MAN~ GODSSS BLESS PLS!
Due to responsibility, I have to stay back. The art of speaking is my must-learn skill~~ @.@
As she said, it can be big or small. Pray hard that it is just a small matter and wont get everyone into trouble. *PRAY TO ALL GODS* I will stop eating all kind of meats and stick to vegetarian for my sins.
Can't I have the fine touch of the art of speaking? Being too honest is indeed the worst thing you should have while you are on job, esp you are facing outsiders. Too straight is wrong for many cases. Lady boss said: The work is not hard, it's the people that hard to handle. I fully understand by now. Working is not about the work, the people skill is the most important skill for your career.
ARGH~!! I just can't be a good employee nor a good speaking person....ARGH!!! Assessment of situation is the matter of one second before you anwser to any question throwns!!! Hope it's not the implication of 祸从口出~~! STRESS!! For my past 5 days, I spent an average of 2hours in car chit chatting with her each day. I may not know the burden of a manager, but I slowly know her. In fact, my lady boss is a kind, considerate and graceful people. She teaches primary student from 7-8am before coming to office; she never scold her children and students (poly) and she has many good characters that worth learning. But, somehow I just can't get along too well with her, when I do, for the past few days, matter happens and she bears for me.
GOOD LUCK FOR BOTH OF US MAN~ GODSSS BLESS PLS!
Due to responsibility, I have to stay back. The art of speaking is my must-learn skill~~ @.@
Monday 26 July 2010
My dream - House
SHOUT LOUDLY - I WANNA OWN A HOUSE.
Ya. The desire to own a house has expanded significantly. I'm saving hard for my dream. I believe another half of me is doing the same thing, but he is more capable by exploring to earn more. The realistic way is to get a HDB, probably 3rooms unit. Equally, I'm seduced by landed house with big space in JB at a lower cost.
Reasons for my strong desire? Probably I'm sick from renting house, by paying housing installment for others, by sharing the house with others and no personal freedom such as decorating the house, purchasing house appliances and etc. I believe I want to stable my life at a place, the one belongs to me.
My birthday is approaching, I bet some of you are aware of it. You better say YES :p My point is, my colleague asked me what do i want for my birthday? Within a second, I replied: Can you get me a house. haha. At this moment, I can't think of anything i want for my birthday...seriously need to brainstorm what I want from my colleagues...or anyone of you interested to know? Then, I will share my checklist for your reference. Heez.
Almost time to bed and I will dream for my dream house...Which level of dream am I in? Hopefully only one level and so I wont be too far from it.
BTW, Inception is an incredibly genious movie production :P
I will be in Changi for sausage making attachment for the whole week till Friday...And here comes my weekends! Congrats to my cutest pilot-to-be (hopefully) HAPPY GRADUATION on coming Saturday!
Ya. The desire to own a house has expanded significantly. I'm saving hard for my dream. I believe another half of me is doing the same thing, but he is more capable by exploring to earn more. The realistic way is to get a HDB, probably 3rooms unit. Equally, I'm seduced by landed house with big space in JB at a lower cost.
Reasons for my strong desire? Probably I'm sick from renting house, by paying housing installment for others, by sharing the house with others and no personal freedom such as decorating the house, purchasing house appliances and etc. I believe I want to stable my life at a place, the one belongs to me.
My birthday is approaching, I bet some of you are aware of it. You better say YES :p My point is, my colleague asked me what do i want for my birthday? Within a second, I replied: Can you get me a house. haha. At this moment, I can't think of anything i want for my birthday...seriously need to brainstorm what I want from my colleagues...or anyone of you interested to know? Then, I will share my checklist for your reference. Heez.
Almost time to bed and I will dream for my dream house...Which level of dream am I in? Hopefully only one level and so I wont be too far from it.
BTW, Inception is an incredibly genious movie production :P
I will be in Changi for sausage making attachment for the whole week till Friday...And here comes my weekends! Congrats to my cutest pilot-to-be (hopefully) HAPPY GRADUATION on coming Saturday!
Sunday 18 July 2010
MELAKA TRIP!
I just returned from Melaka moments ago. It was an awesome trip with the presence of my lovely colleagues. They are really my motivation to work everyday. Though I have tough life in work but I have them in life. They are really great, funny and lovely. We just cant stop loving each other. Thank GOD for leaving them for me.
Melaka is a great place to have a short escape. You have heritage, food, shopping! Pahlawan is a great place to hunt cheap and nice stuff! RM25 for a dress, anyone??! But they are ppl trying to make good money from the clothes too, one S$10 they can sell at RM70,80, crazy!
We drove to BABA Charlie Nyonya Kuih house which is damn crowded by Singaporeans! I think it becomes famous after the show stared by Michelle. Well, I just had the kuih and I dont think they are so fantastic, norm to me. But there is a Restoran Peranakan located at the street next to jonker street, very very nice asam laksa fish~! and it was cheap!! only RM120 for 6 dishes including fresh whole asam laksa fish, sotong, ayam ponteh, rendang chicken, tau geh and four corner beans!! The cendol is delicious too! So, we paid RM20 each! We also found superb delicious egg tart somewhere in a street! Sorry, I cant remember the street name as we were brought by my colleague's friend and my colleague's husband was the one driving and hunting for those foods :p
Oh, Jonker street is culturally attractive and shopping heaven which is different at day and night time!! Those stalls in front of Red House is selling at slightly higher price for the same item!
Hopefully I can visit one more time before CNY next year. Must be even merrier and more things to see and buy!
That's all for my great weekend. Oh, it's starting of another working week. But i can see my colleagues again! Good bye my weekend, see you my horrible weekday!!
That's all for now! \''\(^_^/''/
Melaka is a great place to have a short escape. You have heritage, food, shopping! Pahlawan is a great place to hunt cheap and nice stuff! RM25 for a dress, anyone??! But they are ppl trying to make good money from the clothes too, one S$10 they can sell at RM70,80, crazy!
We drove to BABA Charlie Nyonya Kuih house which is damn crowded by Singaporeans! I think it becomes famous after the show stared by Michelle. Well, I just had the kuih and I dont think they are so fantastic, norm to me. But there is a Restoran Peranakan located at the street next to jonker street, very very nice asam laksa fish~! and it was cheap!! only RM120 for 6 dishes including fresh whole asam laksa fish, sotong, ayam ponteh, rendang chicken, tau geh and four corner beans!! The cendol is delicious too! So, we paid RM20 each! We also found superb delicious egg tart somewhere in a street! Sorry, I cant remember the street name as we were brought by my colleague's friend and my colleague's husband was the one driving and hunting for those foods :p
Oh, Jonker street is culturally attractive and shopping heaven which is different at day and night time!! Those stalls in front of Red House is selling at slightly higher price for the same item!
Hopefully I can visit one more time before CNY next year. Must be even merrier and more things to see and buy!
That's all for my great weekend. Oh, it's starting of another working week. But i can see my colleagues again! Good bye my weekend, see you my horrible weekday!!
That's all for now! \''\(^_^/''/
Tuesday 13 July 2010
老样子
日子还是老样子。
每天日复一日，上班-吃饭-放工-吃饭-睡觉，再循环那些宅宅的日子。
星期一倒数周末，期待周末出游去；
每天想要怎样开心点，自由点的挣钱；
继续这样过日子，大概会很快老化。呵呵。
周末最开心。
可以不上班，不做肉，只做我喜欢的事情。
包括美容、休息、煮饭、出游去。
上上上个周末2个人花了马币46/新币20看了两部好电影- 叶问前传；knight and day. 还坐couple seat, 好划算，毕竟新币20两个人只能在周末看1部戏。
上上个周末把我生平第一次的演唱会给了在云星剧场开唱的任贤齐，没太大惊喜，普通。
上个周末花了少少钱，买了好东西给我的厨房（当然陆续期待更多的厨房用具--等我有自己的家再买，和给他的领带。
这个周末要和同事们去马六甲走透透！
下个周末我要做泡菜! YUM YUM!
想到周末，突然活了起来。
原来周日，我是死的。
钱没挣多少，却老是想买房子，去旅行
怎么办呢？
这样下去，脑袋会越来越不灵活...
我的想法统统太负面了...
在英国的那段日子最好...
压力是有，日子一样过很快，但放假就是旅行去...
我就是不能说服我自己，那样的日子早已离我远去...
算算，我已回国1年了！！！！！！天啊！
人家说: 若不能避免，就尽情享受.
可我就是无法享受嘛~~~
上次呼吁了，怎么没有有钱人要娶我 >_<
脑袋越来越笨拙。
买了这么多地方的飞机票，现在才知道原来统统都凶多吉少。
老板娘啊，放过我，好啊？
btw, 我渐渐相信什么叫做8字不合。
她可以跟每个人都很合，唯独你...
8月曼谷，90%去不成。
11月香港，假是批了，我死死都去！
11月槟城，求求你，让我拿2天假回家吧！
2月KK, 新年拿2次假，看来凶多吉少！
4月巴哩岛，4天假，有一点点的多，希望到时通融通融。
这些都是老板娘任职前/刚来时订的机票，
知道她的pattern后我就再也不敢订机票了，所有AA,JETSTAR,TIGER的网站都不敢进了....
haizzzzZzzzZZzz
剥夺了我人生最期待的日子，生活怎能快活？！
我才发现，我自己真的很在意annual leave，可以去旅行！！！！
每天日复一日，上班-吃饭-放工-吃饭-睡觉，再循环那些宅宅的日子。
星期一倒数周末，期待周末出游去；
每天想要怎样开心点，自由点的挣钱；
继续这样过日子，大概会很快老化。呵呵。
周末最开心。
可以不上班，不做肉，只做我喜欢的事情。
包括美容、休息、煮饭、出游去。
上上上个周末2个人花了马币46/新币20看了两部好电影- 叶问前传；knight and day. 还坐couple seat, 好划算，毕竟新币20两个人只能在周末看1部戏。
上上个周末把我生平第一次的演唱会给了在云星剧场开唱的任贤齐，没太大惊喜，普通。
上个周末花了少少钱，买了好东西给我的厨房（当然陆续期待更多的厨房用具--等我有自己的家再买，和给他的领带。
这个周末要和同事们去马六甲走透透！
下个周末我要做泡菜! YUM YUM!
想到周末，突然活了起来。
原来周日，我是死的。
钱没挣多少，却老是想买房子，去旅行
怎么办呢？
这样下去，脑袋会越来越不灵活...
我的想法统统太负面了...
在英国的那段日子最好...
压力是有，日子一样过很快，但放假就是旅行去...
我就是不能说服我自己，那样的日子早已离我远去...
算算，我已回国1年了！！！！！！天啊！
人家说: 若不能避免，就尽情享受.
可我就是无法享受嘛~~~
上次呼吁了，怎么没有有钱人要娶我 >_<
脑袋越来越笨拙。
买了这么多地方的飞机票，现在才知道原来统统都凶多吉少。
老板娘啊，放过我，好啊？
btw, 我渐渐相信什么叫做8字不合。
她可以跟每个人都很合，唯独你...
8月曼谷，90%去不成。
11月香港，假是批了，我死死都去！
11月槟城，求求你，让我拿2天假回家吧！
2月KK, 新年拿2次假，看来凶多吉少！
4月巴哩岛，4天假，有一点点的多，希望到时通融通融。
这些都是老板娘任职前/刚来时订的机票，
知道她的pattern后我就再也不敢订机票了，所有AA,JETSTAR,TIGER的网站都不敢进了....
haizzzzZzzzZZzz
剥夺了我人生最期待的日子，生活怎能快活？！
我才发现，我自己真的很在意annual leave，可以去旅行！！！！
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