终于，盼到了．
隐隐约约看到曙光的那种激动和兴奋加上感激的感觉是 奇妙的。
坚持后得来不易的这一切，我会珍惜。
想不到，这一刻，我竟然词穷。
老土的话还是要说，我不得不感谢在身边支持我的王老板。心情低落沮丧都是他中招也。
还有爸爸妈妈一直让我慢慢来，昨夜还说不要紧，不喜欢不用接受。
当然还有好多朋友支持我，珊姐竟然说要把我搬上论坛；当然还有给我加油的朋友们。
幸好，我坚持。
我打败了那些沮丧低落消沉的日子，我要重新迎接充满希望的人生。
我会努力，谢谢给与的机会，我相信一切会很好。
一切一切开始明朗化，我也找到新的人生梦想了！给我１２年！
What's your dream?
一个面试官的问题竟然让我深思，并找到目标！
Wednesday 28 October 2009
Monday 26 October 2009
What is an interview?
interview is about how good your lying skill is.
Debate this statement. I paused few seconds while my friend told me this, and then I agreed. But, you gotta make your lie flawless at that moment. Perhaps, you can say that you know how to lie depending on your opponent, or just exaggerate on what you are competent of. The better your talking skill, the better you are in the interview session.
And so, she got a good designer job with a damn good pay, at least, it means a good pay to me. She said, impressive resume with good layout and fabulous and hard-sell-yourself interview are equally important, just that they happen at different stages.
I rated average on my performance during last friday's interview with the potential employer. I should have exaggerated more, hard sell myself instead of just telling the truth and giving the information. Impressed them, sell me and negotiate the salary!
Tomorrow I'm going for an interview with agent, not sure how to deal with her, but I'm gonna find out. Advise me if you have any ideas.
Interview is a powerful skill. I'm working hard on this skill, what to answer correctly for possible question. understand what your potential employer wants to know.
U know u need this skill to guarantee a job in the competitive employment world, the next step after drafting an impressive resume and cover letter. You are both the product and the salesman. Sale yourself.
I'm always cant make the lie perfect. I should have exaggerated my work performance and answer the perfect answer accordingly.
As for my life... It's depressed most of the time, together with PMS and damn hot weather making hot temper, someone kena badly. Too bad, doing the wrong thing at the wrong time. Fails totally.
Finally it's here, after making me suffer for more than a week. Woman is so pity!! We have to endure the pain~!!! Better dont be woman next time!!
Sorry guys I couldnt make it eventually. next time!!
Debate this statement. I paused few seconds while my friend told me this, and then I agreed. But, you gotta make your lie flawless at that moment. Perhaps, you can say that you know how to lie depending on your opponent, or just exaggerate on what you are competent of. The better your talking skill, the better you are in the interview session.
And so, she got a good designer job with a damn good pay, at least, it means a good pay to me. She said, impressive resume with good layout and fabulous and hard-sell-yourself interview are equally important, just that they happen at different stages.
I rated average on my performance during last friday's interview with the potential employer. I should have exaggerated more, hard sell myself instead of just telling the truth and giving the information. Impressed them, sell me and negotiate the salary!
Tomorrow I'm going for an interview with agent, not sure how to deal with her, but I'm gonna find out. Advise me if you have any ideas.
Interview is a powerful skill. I'm working hard on this skill, what to answer correctly for possible question. understand what your potential employer wants to know.
U know u need this skill to guarantee a job in the competitive employment world, the next step after drafting an impressive resume and cover letter. You are both the product and the salesman. Sale yourself.
I'm always cant make the lie perfect. I should have exaggerated my work performance and answer the perfect answer accordingly.
As for my life... It's depressed most of the time, together with PMS and damn hot weather making hot temper, someone kena badly. Too bad, doing the wrong thing at the wrong time. Fails totally.
Finally it's here, after making me suffer for more than a week. Woman is so pity!! We have to endure the pain~!!! Better dont be woman next time!!
Sorry guys I couldnt make it eventually. next time!!
Wednesday 21 October 2009
An interview is coming!
I had the best ever sleeping quality in Kedah, I must recommend Zen Hotel in Alor Setar. I'm not sure what else hotels are available there, but Zen Hotel is definitely not to miss. I dont remember I woke up for once since I slept. This never happen since I'm back from UK.
Thanks Crab Xiang Gong, Love the choice!!
But sleeping problem is bothering me as usual after that. Tension is the best word to describe. I feel tense and pressure throughout my body esp the time I turn on to the bed. My mind is filled with many many things ranging from job, life, money, cooking and future. Quite funny that I would always think what to cook next day. I admit, I love cooking XD
Nevertheless, I have a chance to attend an interview on Friday! I think I will be happy enough to get in this food company, the biggest local listed food company in Singapore. UK business contributes to 50% of the company's turnover. Not sure what they are interested about me. I may have only little chance but I will get myself prepared for it!! This may prove that changing my resume and sending more than one time resume to the same position work! XD
It's kinda touch as I finally grant a chance to interview since my last interview last month. Quite pathetic. I know.
Whatever, I'm also preparing an audition for another party...If this works, I may have the chance to earn some side income once in a blue moon. haha.
I keep telling myself, good days are coming as long as I hold on.
*PRAY!*
Thanks Crab Xiang Gong, Love the choice!!
But sleeping problem is bothering me as usual after that. Tension is the best word to describe. I feel tense and pressure throughout my body esp the time I turn on to the bed. My mind is filled with many many things ranging from job, life, money, cooking and future. Quite funny that I would always think what to cook next day. I admit, I love cooking XD
Nevertheless, I have a chance to attend an interview on Friday! I think I will be happy enough to get in this food company, the biggest local listed food company in Singapore. UK business contributes to 50% of the company's turnover. Not sure what they are interested about me. I may have only little chance but I will get myself prepared for it!! This may prove that changing my resume and sending more than one time resume to the same position work! XD
It's kinda touch as I finally grant a chance to interview since my last interview last month. Quite pathetic. I know.
Whatever, I'm also preparing an audition for another party...If this works, I may have the chance to earn some side income once in a blue moon. haha.
I keep telling myself, good days are coming as long as I hold on.
*PRAY!*
Tuesday 20 October 2009
Back from Penang, again.
What a great months since Im back. It's my 3rd visit to homeland since I'm back from UK.
We had a relax short holiday to Penang and Alor Setar.
Though almost all friends and family asked what does it to do with you about your friend's parents' 30th wedding anniversary. We still went, though only 2 of us. (boh bian, tickets were bought)
The funnist thing was that I busy looking at the map in Penang Streets. Planned to take RapidPenang for the journey but ended up driving my sister's car around town and a free ride by a local tour guide, except we took bus from Airport to Komtar. RapidPenang services need to improve and learn from SG's public transport. Give them some time. Afterall, none of Chinese Penangites would ever take the public transport unless all of their cars in the family/friends are broken.
Cheong Fatt Tze Mansion, tours at 11pm and 3pm only.
Chinese tour needs to request one day in advance.
No public visitors allowed at other time.
RM12, worth the price to see how smart CFT was...
VIP room in Pinang Peranakan Mansion. RM10, tour at any time. Both English and Chinese tours are available all day according to the personnel.
The highly recommended Paddy Museum in Alor Setar, Kedah. RM3/entry and RM2/camera. The 360 degree rotating poster illustrating the paddy farming over a year is surprisingly terrific!
The most interesting part is the visit to Cheong Fatt Tze Mansion and Pinang Peranakan Mansion. The tour in blue CFT Mansion is more organised than PP Mansion but PP Mansion is better for taking photos. Interior building of CFT is not allowed for photo taking due to large money invested to the maintenance of the house. Paid RM1000 and u get to take photos. P Mansion is part of the important shooting place for the famous Little Nyonya!!!
nasi kampung in AS, a sambal fried rice that I'm gonna try cooking it next few days XD
roti taiwan, soft bread with butter, peanut butter and peanut. Perfectly contented.
roti taiwan
three layers tea
Where Lin Guan Yin likes to have breakfast
the coffee bread toast!
the awesome kopi
Even better than fu rong sao baoNo where else can present the best foods than Penang, especially those hawker foods. DELICIOUS!! Yummy!! 'drooling again. The day we arrived SG, he first uttered: we are back to a land lack of nice foods.
I mean as compared to Penang which has plenty of cheap and nice foods... Here is undoubtedly a loser.
Before leaving to SG, dad gave me notes of RM50 which I first rejected. I feel so useless for keep taking parents' money even I have graduated with a degree for 3 months!! What a shame!!!
I seriously dont know what goes wrong and where is my luck for getting a good job. It's simply unbelieveable and unbearable.
I'm patiently waiting the day I can treat my parents a good meal, and bring them to travel. I'm waiting the day!!!
I damn hate those san gu liu po discussing me. It seems like I'm really choosy and not willing to work even I have graduated for months. I hate it and ironically I heard this from my grandma who get the news from her sister, who I never seen before, but she is residing in Singapore. Dont ever let me know who is she even I met her one day. Geramnya #$$%$^%$&$* I want to be unemployed meh...kanasai........
What's wrong to me these few months??
It went unanswered.
Lastly, dedicated this photo to shark H2...finally he can bully u..muahaha
Thursday 8 October 2009
Sick of it.
im really sick of being asking
"have you started working" or
"where are you working now" or
" why you havent found a job"
SICK of IT!!
But ... that's beyond my control =(
"have you started working" or
"where are you working now" or
" why you havent found a job"
SICK of IT!!
But ... that's beyond my control =(
Tuesday 6 October 2009
真愛的戀情
copied
=========================================
有位心理學家曾寫道，一個成熟稱得上真愛的戀情
必須經過四個階段，那就是：
共存(Codependent)
反依賴(Counterdependent)
獨立(Independent)
共生(Interdependent)
階段之間轉換所需的時間不一定，因人而易。
第一個階段：共存。
這是熱戀時期，情人不論何時何地總希望能膩在一起。
第二個階段：反依賴。
等到情感穩定後，至少會有一方想要有多一點自己的時間作自己想做的事，這時
另一方就會感到被冷落。
第三個階段：獨立。
這是第二個階段的延續，要求更多獨立自主的時間。
第四個階段：共生。
這時新的相處之道已經成形，你（妳）的他（她）已經成為你(妳)最親的人。
你們在一起相互扶持、一起開創屬於你們自己的人生。
你們在一起不會互相牽制，而會互相成長。
但是，大部分的人都通不過第二或第三階段，而選擇分手一途，這是非常可惜
的。
很多事只要好好溝通都會沒事的，不要耍個性，不要想太多要互相信任，這樣第
二、三階段的時間就會縮短。
和所愛的人相遇相戀是非常不容易的，不要輕言放棄。
兩人相聚是因為有緣，相知是因為有心，真的得好好珍惜這福份莫說分手不是無
由，希望看到上述的四個階段，真能給大家一些啟示與領悟並惜緣，我們會逐漸
變成我們所愛的人。
妳和他本來沒有相同之處，外表不相像，性格也是南轅北轍，一旦愛上了，年深
日久， 妳會驚訝妳的眼睛有點像他的眼睛，他的微笑也有點像妳的微笑。
你們走路的步伐也有點相似，說話的語氣也愈來愈相像。
他的脖子上有一顆痣，一天，妳發現自己脖子上也多了一顆痣，原來我們會變成
我們所愛的人。
妳本來喜歡腳踏實地的人，而他一向比較輕佻，但你們愛上了，他竟會不知不覺
變成一個老實人，這個改變，連他自己也不曾察覺。
他本來喜歡活潑的女孩子，卻愛上了拘謹的妳，這些日子，妳竟愈來愈活潑，妳
差點認不出自己。
逐漸變成對方理想中的人，這種改變，絕對不是刻意的。
兩個人愈愛得長久，氣質也愈來愈相近，妳曾經以為他不是妳夢寐以求的那種類
型，然而，有一天，妳驚訝地發現，他已經變成妳喜歡的那種類型，妳不必再到
處尋覓，他就是妳要找的人。
深深愛著一個人的時候，妳原來真的會一點一點的失去自己，為甚麼妳還會覺得
快樂呢？
大概是因為妳在失去的當兒， 也是賺了，妳把他的氣質和他的微笑都賺回來。
幸福很單純
所以要很單純的人才容易獲得.......
地球這麼大，世界這麼廣，不去走走看，怎麼知道你的黑夜是別人的白天
=========================================
有位心理學家曾寫道，一個成熟稱得上真愛的戀情
必須經過四個階段，那就是：
共存(Codependent)
反依賴(Counterdependent)
獨立(Independent)
共生(Interdependent)
階段之間轉換所需的時間不一定，因人而易。
第一個階段：共存。
這是熱戀時期，情人不論何時何地總希望能膩在一起。
第二個階段：反依賴。
等到情感穩定後，至少會有一方想要有多一點自己的時間作自己想做的事，這時
另一方就會感到被冷落。
第三個階段：獨立。
這是第二個階段的延續，要求更多獨立自主的時間。
第四個階段：共生。
這時新的相處之道已經成形，你（妳）的他（她）已經成為你(妳)最親的人。
你們在一起相互扶持、一起開創屬於你們自己的人生。
你們在一起不會互相牽制，而會互相成長。
但是，大部分的人都通不過第二或第三階段，而選擇分手一途，這是非常可惜
的。
很多事只要好好溝通都會沒事的，不要耍個性，不要想太多要互相信任，這樣第
二、三階段的時間就會縮短。
和所愛的人相遇相戀是非常不容易的，不要輕言放棄。
兩人相聚是因為有緣，相知是因為有心，真的得好好珍惜這福份莫說分手不是無
由，希望看到上述的四個階段，真能給大家一些啟示與領悟並惜緣，我們會逐漸
變成我們所愛的人。
妳和他本來沒有相同之處，外表不相像，性格也是南轅北轍，一旦愛上了，年深
日久， 妳會驚訝妳的眼睛有點像他的眼睛，他的微笑也有點像妳的微笑。
你們走路的步伐也有點相似，說話的語氣也愈來愈相像。
他的脖子上有一顆痣，一天，妳發現自己脖子上也多了一顆痣，原來我們會變成
我們所愛的人。
妳本來喜歡腳踏實地的人，而他一向比較輕佻，但你們愛上了，他竟會不知不覺
變成一個老實人，這個改變，連他自己也不曾察覺。
他本來喜歡活潑的女孩子，卻愛上了拘謹的妳，這些日子，妳竟愈來愈活潑，妳
差點認不出自己。
逐漸變成對方理想中的人，這種改變，絕對不是刻意的。
兩個人愈愛得長久，氣質也愈來愈相近，妳曾經以為他不是妳夢寐以求的那種類
型，然而，有一天，妳驚訝地發現，他已經變成妳喜歡的那種類型，妳不必再到
處尋覓，他就是妳要找的人。
深深愛著一個人的時候，妳原來真的會一點一點的失去自己，為甚麼妳還會覺得
快樂呢？
大概是因為妳在失去的當兒， 也是賺了，妳把他的氣質和他的微笑都賺回來。
幸福很單純
所以要很單純的人才容易獲得.......
地球這麼大，世界這麼廣，不去走走看，怎麼知道你的黑夜是別人的白天
我是名副其实的穷光蛋
什么都要钱钱钱
我现在就是没有钱钱钱！
我要做有钱人啊！！
Sibeh 压力，什么时候才有工作，人家我的薪水要求都降低那么多了...
学人家搞什么兴趣啦，现在这种冷门的工作那么难找，看你怎么坚持兴趣还有饭吃！！
Argh！
我要钱！！！
要被逼疯了，因为我真的是名副其实的穷光蛋了...
不能买好吃的，做好吃的东西，买好用的oven, 还有去旅行...
什么都没有，就是有时间和depressed mood =(
没有quanlity但有quantity的人生还有意义吗？
不如过得有quality但短暂的生命，至少那会让人记得的灿烂一幕。
我现在就是没有钱钱钱！
我要做有钱人啊！！
Sibeh 压力，什么时候才有工作，人家我的薪水要求都降低那么多了...
学人家搞什么兴趣啦，现在这种冷门的工作那么难找，看你怎么坚持兴趣还有饭吃！！
Argh！
我要钱！！！
要被逼疯了，因为我真的是名副其实的穷光蛋了...
不能买好吃的，做好吃的东西，买好用的oven, 还有去旅行...
什么都没有，就是有时间和depressed mood =(
没有quanlity但有quantity的人生还有意义吗？
不如过得有quality但短暂的生命，至少那会让人记得的灿烂一幕。
Friday 2 October 2009
中秋节快乐
Net said, when going gets tough and tough gets going. She hopes that I will taste the fruit of my 'labour' soon.
What an motivated phrase to me.
At this moment, I need motivational encouragement to get me going.
Another friend talked to me yesterday, she inspired me to live up my resume and change to a more outstanding one. Be flexible. I shall not be obstructed by my stubborn mindset. Change the pathway, the requirement. Different road may lead to the same destination, or even better ones.
Sometimes, I regret for letting go the first job, at least till this point...
Anyway, Happy Mooncake Festival aka Mid Autumn Festival. Now, I know the reason of naming it as 'Mid Autumn Festival'. It's Autumn now =) How I miss those days, especially when I saw a junior of mine who have just arrived in the UK, posted up photos in orangie, yellowish and reddish.
中秋节快乐 =)
What a long missed sunset.
The Mooncake festival celebration at Changi Beach. A much less crowded beach as compared to ECP but the flights' landing do annoy a little.
Well, a nice weekend =)
What an motivated phrase to me.
At this moment, I need motivational encouragement to get me going.
Another friend talked to me yesterday, she inspired me to live up my resume and change to a more outstanding one. Be flexible. I shall not be obstructed by my stubborn mindset. Change the pathway, the requirement. Different road may lead to the same destination, or even better ones.
Sometimes, I regret for letting go the first job, at least till this point...
Anyway, Happy Mooncake Festival aka Mid Autumn Festival. Now, I know the reason of naming it as 'Mid Autumn Festival'. It's Autumn now =) How I miss those days, especially when I saw a junior of mine who have just arrived in the UK, posted up photos in orangie, yellowish and reddish.
中秋节快乐 =)
What a long missed sunset.
The Mooncake festival celebration at Changi Beach. A much less crowded beach as compared to ECP but the flights' landing do annoy a little.
Well, a nice weekend =)
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