Sunday, 2 May 2010

When u are 24 - you are lady, not girl.

不知道从哪里看到这篇日志,感觉说得很有道理,希望每个女生都能幸福的生活着~~

1~要坚信一个真理:这个世界上只有爸妈永远对你好。
你24岁了,你记不记得自己青春反叛的时候怎么气过他们。
你24岁了,父母都快年过半百了,你要对他们好的时间已经不多了。不要等失去的时候才哭着说当时年少不懂事,没有好好孝敬父母。

2~是的,你已经达到法定婚龄了,可是你并不用着急着嫁人。
或许你正在热恋,你们山盟海誓说要一辈子。
可是你才24岁,你不知道一辈子到底有多长。日子是过出来的,不是想出来的。
结婚,不是两个人的事情,是两个家庭的事情。老一辈讲的门当户对,并不是毫无道理的封建思想。结婚,你应该抱着一辈子只有一次的信念,所以结婚,慢慢来。

3~轰轰烈烈的爱情,留给一字头的年龄。
你24岁了。别再做那些会被别人当做笑话的傻事。
什么夜不归宿,当街吵架,以死相逼,一哭二闹三上吊。
那些疯狂的事情,那些年少轻狂,经历过就够了。
24岁了,学会淡定从容。
女孩子,从来就应该骄傲地活着,而不是卑微地恋爱。

4~不要因为寂寞而恋爱,不要因为跟风而恋爱。
24岁了,学会对自己的人生负责。

5~自己喜欢的东西,不要奢望别人买。
24岁,不管你以前是否玩过暧昧,你已经过了暧昧的年龄。
女人要独立,经济独立是基础。

6~如果一个男人对你说他配不上你,相信他。
一个自己说配不上你的男人,一辈子也不会配得上你!
珍惜与能力无关,与钱无关!

7~明确自己的目标,为此奋斗。
24岁,你要出国?找工作?还是继续学习?
24岁,你离踏入社会已不远,你是否已做好准备?

8~答应自己的事情就要做到,该对自己狠的时候就要狠,切忌优柔寡断、藕断丝连。
对自己心软,成不了大事。
24岁,要学会面对现实,不能再整日沉浸于白日梦中。

9~女孩子,要学会对自己好一点,别把所有的都投资在所谓的“潜力股”身上。
无论什么时候,看清楚你自己手中留着什么底牌。

10~做人学会圆滑。
24岁,别人不会再把你当小孩子,你的错误已不会再有人包容。
对不喜欢的人和事面带笑容,是我们必须学会的恶心。

11~感谢所有伤害过你的人。
然后在24岁生日的那天,对他们挥挥手,说声,我不再恨你们了。
你长大了,你要正视伤害。

12~别玩什么非主流。你不是90后。
还不如学着化化妆,不是烟熏妆,是大方得体的淡妆。
一个大企业的面试官曾对我说过,一个化淡妆的女生,企业会优先考虑。
为什么?因为你连自己的容貌都不着急,你会着急什么?
世界上没有丑女人,只有懒女人。

13~减肥,说说就好。
到你真的减到跟竹竿似的时候,你会发现低血压低血糖头晕目眩一系列疾病同时伴随你。
说不好还有胃癌。
24岁,你要知道,你以后的路还有很长,健康的身体是你走下去的保证。

14~对挑拨离间的人,不要揭发他。
等他演完一出出好戏,拼命演,拼命圆。
然后告诉他,其实你什么都知道。
接着,笑笑,离开。

15~谁对你好,你就对谁好。
人际交往永远是礼尚往来的、双向法则,没有人有义务对你好。
24岁,擦亮眼睛,谁对你好,记得对他好。

16~转身,要比眼泪快。
这是必须。
24岁了,你必须学会承担难过,你必须知道难过它会过去。
要经常对自己说,我也可以很勇敢。不要,千万不要,轻易在别人面前掉眼泪。
别人看多了你的眼泪,就会觉得你的眼泪如此廉价。

17~你以前或许干过许多荒唐的事。
可是请你不要觉得那有多见不得人。请你不要觉得那是负担。
24岁,这是你生命中一个新的开始。

18~随时给自己准备一个微笑 告诉自己 我可以!

不小了 要加油了

女人应该记住的:
1.学会做几个拿手好菜,不一定是给爱人做,也可能在休闲的时候犒劳自己或者慰劳下辛苦多年的父母。

2.越是得不到的感情,越不要极尽全力的强求;越是离得很远的理想,越需要旷日持久的坚持。

3.不要在情绪不好的时候做坏的决定,越是负面情绪占据主导的时候,越要少折腾神经。

4.一天不能花8小时以上时间去想同一个人,超过12点,再大的事也要为睡觉让路。

5.当感觉自己语塞的时候,就不要乱说话,要知道,沉默,也有无限种含义。

6.心情不好或者空虚寂寞的时候,千万不要找异性去说,那样只会让你更危险,找不到好姐们,也还有自己的父母。

7.不要怕犯傻和犯错,怕的是你第二次还犯同样的傻和同样的错。

8.工作是你的权利而不是义务,你可以少工作或者多工作,但是千万不要不工作。

9.健康比三围重要,智慧比财富值钱,这两样东西,争取都不要少。

10.能得到别人称赞不一定是好事,因为那同样会让你骄傲。

11.不要总是羡慕别人的幸福,因为那也可能是别人辛苦得来的。

12.衣服不要尽可能的多,够穿就行,男人不要尽可能的富有,够体贴你就成

Saturday, 1 May 2010

homesick =(

Continue with my previous post.

With many depressed reasons, here they provoke my homesickness which never happen for long time. Plus, it's mother's day next weekend which I cannot be home, again, after so many years in Singapore.

I've been asking myself what can I do to brighten up my mood and days. Now, I can finally think of one - Going home. Although my hometown house is not maintained in a good condition that I always get sick or uncomfortable due to my sensitive nose and many other reasons, I still love to go home as I feel so much relax and worry-free. That's like living under my parents' wings that I'm so protected and carefree~

I have not travelled for many months since my last trip in UK which is coming to one year =( As in travel to any places out of Singapore and Penisular Malaysia and new place that I never been to. So sienz... Life sucks!!!


HAiz, so wish to resign and stay at hometown forever without working for others.. Miss my parents so much, feel like crying T_T

but then, since my younger sister studies in KL, my parents feel so much lonely that they start to get a dog and treat it like real son. My dad never get so worry when we get sick (neither when we were toddler nor adults) but he bought damn expensive shampoo to the dog and even almost bring it to 'pet hospital' which cost much more than our 'human hospital'~! I joke that we should get it an insurance plan too......

anyway, at least the dog can keep them accompany and bring them so much fun each day. U can't stop laughing if u ever see how my dad and mum are confusing the dog (to enter the house or not)- one stopping and one luring it with foods and meats inside the house!!

And my elder sister is in new zealand now for her brand new life... all the best to her for the following 9months...

Homesick lah =( When will I have my own home?? We are going to move again, looking for a 4room HDB in west area... around clementi,jurong east, chinese garden. Do recommend!!

Updates after a while

Guys, long time no see...
Nothing special...busy and routine work and life...

Well, work is stressful and helpless sometimes.
I don't know how to handle the old ppl in company.
I don't have very good food technical background.
I don't know how to adjust the speaking tone, how to judge what to say and not to say.
I don't like meaty stuff but I have to do it.
I don't have good human and work management system in place.

I JUST DONT WANT TO WORK ANYMORE. As in not working at all. It's not the company problem only, it's my personal problem... I just dunno how to handle all these ppl, matters, politics. I feel so tired, stressed, depressed and helpless.

Can I live in a world where everyone has a kind and helpful heart? I have to make things clear that I work happily in my department but not with other depts and superiors.

I just want to lay on a man who can take care of everything and thereafter I can live happily ever after without much worries...

Let me dream...no one knows me, even myself is unsure what I want.



It's really not a good year for me.
I hardly could meet a 'gui ren' in workplace...
My plans always do not carry out as it is planned, be it in life or work...
So negative and depressed......

haizzzz



Today is labour day. To me, just another weekend... with mild 'stomach' pain which most girls have to suffer each month >< so cham... HAiZzzz!!

Friday, 9 April 2010

人,总在改变...

每回遇到友谊问题,我总是乱了阵脚。

hmmmm...有时候,不断地挑起事端,真的会fed up!
朋友不是让人感觉舒服的吗?
为何我开始感觉有压力?
我一定要跟着你们的方式走吗?

不过,也是时候自我反省。

我确实逐渐偏向宅女内向型,都不主动约朋友,出门去~
有些朋友接受,也习惯这种相处方式,
我却也开始问自己:是种病态吗?

Anyway, 他们可不接受这些excuses。

工作累了,就真的什么都不想理了,
王先生总是要我往外跑,见见朋友,我总是喊累,懒惰,所以日子过得平淡无奇。
我想,我真的累了。
在外趴趴走了好久,就想赖在家,赖着他, 想内向,想自闭。

想想,睡在棺材其实挺不错,永远就呆在同一个地点,时间到了有人给你钱,给你屋子,给你跑车,还可以有IPod, IPhone. 不错嘛~~

Saturday, 20 March 2010

生病记

星期六 雨天

从星期四晚上开始,整个人昏昏沉沉的,拖着快病死的身躯学yoga去,就是不要浪费一个小时5块钱的学费。
晚上发起烧来了。

虽然星期五因为有个跟总经理、与对方签合约的公司等等大牌人物- 非常极度重要的会议...
我还是决定拿病假,因为真的感觉很累很疲累很软弱...

题外话,我前阵子天天梦到总经理...
有人说,我犯太岁又没有去拜拜的结果...
我管他的,我就是不信邪~~~

我会尽力的~
是我被看得起也~
以我看来,是好事一庄,ok?

但还是阿米驼佛,我没有惹毛他...
我可是有认真工作,好不好嘛,总经理...
我会快点show you performance!!


话说,那是近日的工作压力...
是不是这样而导致抵抗力下滑,
被同事的细菌感染,一个接一个地倒下.....

病了2天,足足两天后,我终于起身刷牙洗脸冲凉.
这两天内,我差不多断断续续睡超过24个小时吧...
剩余的时间就是看戏,看戏,上上fb...

觉得自己很恐怖,48个小时后才冲凉,不过没有出去的我,没有臭臭哦!


那天跟一个朋友聊起,突然在想 ,怎么我在英国没有那么频密的生病?
外国的天气果然比较好,人也比较精神,少生病。
至少在英国,我的鼻子绝对听我的话。
爸爸说得对,生在四季国家的人身子都特别硬朗,因为总得适应不同的气候吧~

明天要去找舅舅阿姨,身子好起来,不要传染病菌给小孩子们噢~

喉咙痛的药都吃完了,怎么喉咙还是坏坏的?

anyway, 何先生,不要再给我压力,我会努力做好的!
我的抗压能力真的很差哦~

阿米驼佛~~~~

Monday, 15 March 2010

不知道想干嘛,所以赖在这里一下下.

度过小小的假期,明天又开工了.

Friday, 5 March 2010

The life stories

It has been awhile since my last update.

CNY has totally over, my first and last angpaus are in SGD.
First, given by Chef Eric, together with Dark Chocolate,
He said that was for V DAY. So SWEET of him!
I received my last ang pau from my cousin, on Wed, 3.3.10.

What happen recently are more emotional and I can see more opportunities are coming after me. Good or bad? I don't know. I gotta do it.

I totally have no time to blog. Life sucks huh?
But I always spend sometime on fb to ensure im not outdated from friends' news and it just needs few clicking and typing! I feel I'm probably typing too much till I'm reluctant to move my fingers on the keyboard after work!!

One thing for sure is... my working place is gonna be further and further from my home!! Just accept :( I gotta miss my fun, caring and lovely colleagues!! I know they gonna miss me too.... argh. feel so down~


Suddenly feel like talking something about studying overseas.

How does 11 months mean to you?
It's long for a long term relationship.
It's short for a degree course.
It's neither long nor short to something,like living experience.

Once you have been there, you are talking the experience for lifetime,
just like those NSmen have never stopped talking about their torturing but memorable NS stories regardless of the ages.
This happens the same to me.

I realised I never stop mentioning UK and Europe stories.
It becomes part of my daily conversation.
UK business and their eating behaviours, I share a thought.
GM's UK study and travel experiences, I join the interesting topic.
Freaking hot weather, I say I miss UK's weather.
Other colleagues, superiors, suppliers and clients asking about education background, I just repeat the stories.
About world economy and currency, I ask them to go UK now.
Chef cooking new western dishes, I know English like them.
Europe travel stories, I have a lot to share!
The movie scene, the recognisable heritage, I been there!

Practically, It comes out naturally.

I know, 11months were hard days for me but it's definitely memorable.

When can I return to UK?
OR
When can I have another unforgettable yet exciting life experience?


Thought of going to see other parts of the world...
A crazy way again ...
Expecially in this EXTREMELY HEATY country.

Looking at the raise of temperature,
rate of earthquake and tsunami,
you know 2012 is not far!



AND, my curls are a lot more straighten.
Kinda SAD~~

Sunday, 7 February 2010

我爱我家

新年到了,春意浓。
无可否认,春节气息一年比一年少,但那还是家人团聚的好日子。
至少,我家要大家整整齐齐,同桌吃饭的好日子,一年就只有这么一次。

说说老爸老妈。
年龄渐大,有些事看破了。
家里只剩弟弟和新的家庭成员- Pui Pui aka 肥肥黑狗的陪伴。
爸爸总是忽略每况愈下的身体状况;妈妈却还算对自己的高血压和高胆固醇有所顾忌。

我家的大姐,每次看着她的部落格更新,就不想再回复了。
那些都带着负面的一撇一划,让我看了很郁闷...
什么时候她才能释怀,做个真正快乐的人呢?
真的需要5年吗?
希望你很快就会离开那些阴霾,做个快乐积极面对人生的人,
你值得过这样的生活,而不是活在灰色的城市里,继续自我摧残...
你要给自己一个重新生活的机会!
而不要在活在那些事情的阴影之下,好吗?

你要,走出来。


弟弟呢,我跟妈说,他真的生性了。
一切一切的无动于衷,我都看在眼里。
就是成熟长大了,每一步,他都有计划。
我看好我弟,他是成熟的,他会有一番作为,让长辈都大吃一惊。
我知道有一天,我会以他为荣...

说真的,我弟很帅的hor~~ heezz


妹妹阿,大学生啊。
过着典型的色彩缤纷大学生涯。
有时候,却还是迷了路...
但,这是个过程,她总会走过来....

偶尔的跌倒,是为了累计更丰富的人生经验,我还是鼓励让她自己去学走,学跑~
我们的小妹,长大了啦~


我爱我家~~
我快要看到你们咯~~~


这次我一定要拍全家福~

Friday, 5 February 2010

The routine.

Working is tiring
but I do enjoy the working hours
for half of the work, and all the colleagues.

I'm blessed to have these kind, fun and understandable pretty colleagues.
Though good days are expired in 31 March, we will try to enjoy, before the new manager coming in.

It's really nothing much you can do after a long day utilising the full tank of energy
But, one thing would definitely refill the energy tank easily - cooking.
I have a new toy called thermal pot that I use to cook and keep my soup/dessert warm till I'm back from work.
That's cool,save and healthy, isn't it?

I admit, I like cooking, during office hours or home hours :D
So, my uncle ong ong observes that nowadays, young girls, esp those pretty ones, like to practice culinary!! Which I think it's true :x cause I'm also one of them :)
My genuine pig comments that I do improve my cooking skill, oK!!hohoo


Well well well...
I do enjoy the moments.


NOW, Let's hope for a prosperous tiger year ahead for all of us!!
Most importantly, money growssss!!!
So we can do what we want, where to go!!


Tiger year must be a good year, I truly believe!!

Gong xi ya gong xi, fa ya fa da cai~

XIN NIAN LAI LOH!!
XIN NIAN LAI LOH~~~~


7days count down to see my new family member aka pui pui black dog, and my dearest Ngssssss

Argh... We still can't celebrate Valentine day together, It is the 3rd time we miss :(((

Oh, Fish Leong is finally married romantically! I love the sun, and the beach!
Seriously I wish my wedding is conducted at such a way!!
I will keep dreaming, and hope to become real??
Unless we tiok toto or 4D lah!! haha
and invits all of you :x
BTW, I look forward to CM's bf wedding proposal~!
It must be damn romantic!!

Keep the believe: Love is proved by hurdles!!


Cute curls?? haha
My adorable mei mei couldn't recall me when she first saw my new hairstyle. She was totally staying away from me, while her brother tried to recall everything about me!
I think she has totally confused how can her nini jiejie looks completely different until the moment I left!

Sunday, 24 January 2010

Update..

Basically, life goes on beautifully.

Appreciate what I have and working hard for what I want.

Life is good with my most caring boyfriend, sophisticated work as well as fun and pretty colleagues. Undoubtably, we are a department saturated with pretty and young girls. haha.

Recently been back to Sing k addiction after two and a half years self-prohibition. the frequency and expenses are still within my control but i found myself is outdated with the songs!! Yesterday was my first time to do full body massage. It is painful, I dont really enjoy...

RIP for Johor sultan but it ruined many ppl's weekend plan, esp those wanted a getaway to JB. Colleagues and my plans were completely destroyed. Headed back to SG for spontaneous event. It became a long day and yet fun day :D

Chinese New Year is just around the corner, and i have no mood to go shopping cause I've been addicted to online shopping!!! HAHahhaaa...

Nothing much to update besides I have significantly improved my cooking skill but unstable performance. haha... Just hope for the best in coming Tiger YEAR!!! IT's my Most AGGRESSIVE year :DDDD

Hope tiger brings the luck to all ppl :DD


More updates can be found in my fb status/photos i guesss :DD

Oh, i have completely changed my outlook to welcome my TIGER year ... cuter but not prettier- according to my uncle ong ong, sad. It costed me S$136 to be more cute...