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Monday, 6 September 2010
'I wish I could know what I want'
Recently, I keep asking myself, what is life?
Life always doesn't go the way ppl wish. I'm simple but I start giving myself complicated situations. I'm in the dilemma of most ppl face such as working for a job I don't really like and leading a dull working life.
I work for the sake of money. With the money, I can go travelling, buying a house which will then provide sense of belonging, going for facial and beauty products with the list going on.
But life like this is meaning less, right? I force myself to love my job & manager and stay in the company till I get the bonus. I struggle if I should book the tour and package while I worry if my leave is disapproved.
Negative thoughts are hitting me, again... Tell me, why life cannot go the way we want? However, I also lost my way... I cant figure out what's the life I want... I wish I could know what I want.......
'I wish I could know what I want' - good for thoughts?
Life always doesn't go the way ppl wish. I'm simple but I start giving myself complicated situations. I'm in the dilemma of most ppl face such as working for a job I don't really like and leading a dull working life.
I work for the sake of money. With the money, I can go travelling, buying a house which will then provide sense of belonging, going for facial and beauty products with the list going on.
But life like this is meaning less, right? I force myself to love my job & manager and stay in the company till I get the bonus. I struggle if I should book the tour and package while I worry if my leave is disapproved.
Negative thoughts are hitting me, again... Tell me, why life cannot go the way we want? However, I also lost my way... I cant figure out what's the life I want... I wish I could know what I want.......
'I wish I could know what I want' - good for thoughts?
Saturday, 31 July 2010
工作的技巧
那天的我报说，乡下人不用护肤品，但皮肤仍好。城市的人拼命用护肤品，但皮肤依然快速老化，那是因为城市人的皮肤不断受压力影响。
城市的市场上出现越来越多减压配套，从按摩到SPA到户外活动到看心理医生... 我们赚的钱又流回到了别人的手里，还得不偿失地使自己青春不再。赚的钱还抽税，真是赔了夫人又折兵！可到底为什么我们还拼命赚钱呢？
其实我们都懂，还是加加减减还是有钱剩。赚了大钱，就有好日子过，有面子。只是失去的，都是intangible - 不能用钱来衡量的。你失去了自我，失去了陪家人教育小孩与另一半联络感情的时间，失去了自由，甚至有些人可能因此身心受创。如果能够选择，我真的不想工作，越来越失去自我，连说什么话都被管。诚实是从小的教育，但遇到工作上的某些人，你就是不可以老实。凌晨1点，老板娘简讯我说，要我从这件事好好学习，不准对他人提起。
其实，我认为两人都有错，若不是她说，我会做吗？我只错在不会说话而已。
无论如何，工作上的说话技巧，待人处事，与上司的相处技巧等我还得好好学习才行，不然我在社会上决不能呆久。
昨夜，我又哭了, 因为我想起爸爸。如果我告诉爸爸，爸爸一定会要我不工作了，然后再塞钱给我。爸爸的肩膀好宽好厚好踏实...但，我已经毕业了，不该成为家里的负累，而是带给他们好日子的女儿... 没关系的，我下个周末就可以见到爸爸妈妈了，我好想念他们...家里的日子最好，可以什么话都说，什么事都做，爸爸都让着我，给我欺负。哈！
我嚷着以后都不工作，王先生说，会有这么一天的！我也要做做梦~~~~
我还说，不如我们回去种菜去，日子可以挺逍遥吧？
让我好好享受这个凉凉的星期六早晨吧~ 朋友们，我这就出门去！
城市的市场上出现越来越多减压配套，从按摩到SPA到户外活动到看心理医生... 我们赚的钱又流回到了别人的手里，还得不偿失地使自己青春不再。赚的钱还抽税，真是赔了夫人又折兵！可到底为什么我们还拼命赚钱呢？
其实我们都懂，还是加加减减还是有钱剩。赚了大钱，就有好日子过，有面子。只是失去的，都是intangible - 不能用钱来衡量的。你失去了自我，失去了陪家人教育小孩与另一半联络感情的时间，失去了自由，甚至有些人可能因此身心受创。如果能够选择，我真的不想工作，越来越失去自我，连说什么话都被管。诚实是从小的教育，但遇到工作上的某些人，你就是不可以老实。凌晨1点，老板娘简讯我说，要我从这件事好好学习，不准对他人提起。
其实，我认为两人都有错，若不是她说，我会做吗？我只错在不会说话而已。
无论如何，工作上的说话技巧，待人处事，与上司的相处技巧等我还得好好学习才行，不然我在社会上决不能呆久。
昨夜，我又哭了, 因为我想起爸爸。如果我告诉爸爸，爸爸一定会要我不工作了，然后再塞钱给我。爸爸的肩膀好宽好厚好踏实...但，我已经毕业了，不该成为家里的负累，而是带给他们好日子的女儿... 没关系的，我下个周末就可以见到爸爸妈妈了，我好想念他们...家里的日子最好，可以什么话都说，什么事都做，爸爸都让着我，给我欺负。哈！
我嚷着以后都不工作，王先生说，会有这么一天的！我也要做做梦~~~~
我还说，不如我们回去种菜去，日子可以挺逍遥吧？
让我好好享受这个凉凉的星期六早晨吧~ 朋友们，我这就出门去！
Friday, 30 July 2010
祸从口出 & LADY BOSS
Another working week has just ended. I have been working very carefully for the past five days and I seriously thought life has been getting better. At least, I have built up good rapport with my lady boss. Life was great for the 4.5 days but the bad luck god get me into trouble when we were almost leaving, for one sentence from my mouth. No, I get my lady boss, GM and probably the whole company image into trouble. No enlarge effect. My lady boss cried. Tell me, how many of you equip with the capability to make your boss in tears? Seriously, I'm amazed by my competency.
As she said, it can be big or small. Pray hard that it is just a small matter and wont get everyone into trouble. *PRAY TO ALL GODS* I will stop eating all kind of meats and stick to vegetarian for my sins.
Can't I have the fine touch of the art of speaking? Being too honest is indeed the worst thing you should have while you are on job, esp you are facing outsiders. Too straight is wrong for many cases. Lady boss said: The work is not hard, it's the people that hard to handle. I fully understand by now. Working is not about the work, the people skill is the most important skill for your career.
ARGH~!! I just can't be a good employee nor a good speaking person....ARGH!!! Assessment of situation is the matter of one second before you anwser to any question throwns!!! Hope it's not the implication of 祸从口出~~! STRESS!! For my past 5 days, I spent an average of 2hours in car chit chatting with her each day. I may not know the burden of a manager, but I slowly know her. In fact, my lady boss is a kind, considerate and graceful people. She teaches primary student from 7-8am before coming to office; she never scold her children and students (poly) and she has many good characters that worth learning. But, somehow I just can't get along too well with her, when I do, for the past few days, matter happens and she bears for me.
GOOD LUCK FOR BOTH OF US MAN~ GODSSS BLESS PLS!
Due to responsibility, I have to stay back. The art of speaking is my must-learn skill~~ @.@
As she said, it can be big or small. Pray hard that it is just a small matter and wont get everyone into trouble. *PRAY TO ALL GODS* I will stop eating all kind of meats and stick to vegetarian for my sins.
Can't I have the fine touch of the art of speaking? Being too honest is indeed the worst thing you should have while you are on job, esp you are facing outsiders. Too straight is wrong for many cases. Lady boss said: The work is not hard, it's the people that hard to handle. I fully understand by now. Working is not about the work, the people skill is the most important skill for your career.
ARGH~!! I just can't be a good employee nor a good speaking person....ARGH!!! Assessment of situation is the matter of one second before you anwser to any question throwns!!! Hope it's not the implication of 祸从口出~~! STRESS!! For my past 5 days, I spent an average of 2hours in car chit chatting with her each day. I may not know the burden of a manager, but I slowly know her. In fact, my lady boss is a kind, considerate and graceful people. She teaches primary student from 7-8am before coming to office; she never scold her children and students (poly) and she has many good characters that worth learning. But, somehow I just can't get along too well with her, when I do, for the past few days, matter happens and she bears for me.
GOOD LUCK FOR BOTH OF US MAN~ GODSSS BLESS PLS!
Due to responsibility, I have to stay back. The art of speaking is my must-learn skill~~ @.@
Monday, 26 July 2010
My dream - House
SHOUT LOUDLY - I WANNA OWN A HOUSE.
Ya. The desire to own a house has expanded significantly. I'm saving hard for my dream. I believe another half of me is doing the same thing, but he is more capable by exploring to earn more. The realistic way is to get a HDB, probably 3rooms unit. Equally, I'm seduced by landed house with big space in JB at a lower cost.
Reasons for my strong desire? Probably I'm sick from renting house, by paying housing installment for others, by sharing the house with others and no personal freedom such as decorating the house, purchasing house appliances and etc. I believe I want to stable my life at a place, the one belongs to me.
My birthday is approaching, I bet some of you are aware of it. You better say YES :p My point is, my colleague asked me what do i want for my birthday? Within a second, I replied: Can you get me a house. haha. At this moment, I can't think of anything i want for my birthday...seriously need to brainstorm what I want from my colleagues...or anyone of you interested to know? Then, I will share my checklist for your reference. Heez.
Almost time to bed and I will dream for my dream house...Which level of dream am I in? Hopefully only one level and so I wont be too far from it.
BTW, Inception is an incredibly genious movie production :P
I will be in Changi for sausage making attachment for the whole week till Friday...And here comes my weekends! Congrats to my cutest pilot-to-be (hopefully) HAPPY GRADUATION on coming Saturday!
Ya. The desire to own a house has expanded significantly. I'm saving hard for my dream. I believe another half of me is doing the same thing, but he is more capable by exploring to earn more. The realistic way is to get a HDB, probably 3rooms unit. Equally, I'm seduced by landed house with big space in JB at a lower cost.
Reasons for my strong desire? Probably I'm sick from renting house, by paying housing installment for others, by sharing the house with others and no personal freedom such as decorating the house, purchasing house appliances and etc. I believe I want to stable my life at a place, the one belongs to me.
My birthday is approaching, I bet some of you are aware of it. You better say YES :p My point is, my colleague asked me what do i want for my birthday? Within a second, I replied: Can you get me a house. haha. At this moment, I can't think of anything i want for my birthday...seriously need to brainstorm what I want from my colleagues...or anyone of you interested to know? Then, I will share my checklist for your reference. Heez.
Almost time to bed and I will dream for my dream house...Which level of dream am I in? Hopefully only one level and so I wont be too far from it.
BTW, Inception is an incredibly genious movie production :P
I will be in Changi for sausage making attachment for the whole week till Friday...And here comes my weekends! Congrats to my cutest pilot-to-be (hopefully) HAPPY GRADUATION on coming Saturday!
Sunday, 18 July 2010
MELAKA TRIP!
I just returned from Melaka moments ago. It was an awesome trip with the presence of my lovely colleagues. They are really my motivation to work everyday. Though I have tough life in work but I have them in life. They are really great, funny and lovely. We just cant stop loving each other. Thank GOD for leaving them for me.
Melaka is a great place to have a short escape. You have heritage, food, shopping! Pahlawan is a great place to hunt cheap and nice stuff! RM25 for a dress, anyone??! But they are ppl trying to make good money from the clothes too, one S$10 they can sell at RM70,80, crazy!
We drove to BABA Charlie Nyonya Kuih house which is damn crowded by Singaporeans! I think it becomes famous after the show stared by Michelle. Well, I just had the kuih and I dont think they are so fantastic, norm to me. But there is a Restoran Peranakan located at the street next to jonker street, very very nice asam laksa fish~! and it was cheap!! only RM120 for 6 dishes including fresh whole asam laksa fish, sotong, ayam ponteh, rendang chicken, tau geh and four corner beans!! The cendol is delicious too! So, we paid RM20 each! We also found superb delicious egg tart somewhere in a street! Sorry, I cant remember the street name as we were brought by my colleague's friend and my colleague's husband was the one driving and hunting for those foods :p
Oh, Jonker street is culturally attractive and shopping heaven which is different at day and night time!! Those stalls in front of Red House is selling at slightly higher price for the same item!
Hopefully I can visit one more time before CNY next year. Must be even merrier and more things to see and buy!
That's all for my great weekend. Oh, it's starting of another working week. But i can see my colleagues again! Good bye my weekend, see you my horrible weekday!!
That's all for now! \''\(^_^/''/
Melaka is a great place to have a short escape. You have heritage, food, shopping! Pahlawan is a great place to hunt cheap and nice stuff! RM25 for a dress, anyone??! But they are ppl trying to make good money from the clothes too, one S$10 they can sell at RM70,80, crazy!
We drove to BABA Charlie Nyonya Kuih house which is damn crowded by Singaporeans! I think it becomes famous after the show stared by Michelle. Well, I just had the kuih and I dont think they are so fantastic, norm to me. But there is a Restoran Peranakan located at the street next to jonker street, very very nice asam laksa fish~! and it was cheap!! only RM120 for 6 dishes including fresh whole asam laksa fish, sotong, ayam ponteh, rendang chicken, tau geh and four corner beans!! The cendol is delicious too! So, we paid RM20 each! We also found superb delicious egg tart somewhere in a street! Sorry, I cant remember the street name as we were brought by my colleague's friend and my colleague's husband was the one driving and hunting for those foods :p
Oh, Jonker street is culturally attractive and shopping heaven which is different at day and night time!! Those stalls in front of Red House is selling at slightly higher price for the same item!
Hopefully I can visit one more time before CNY next year. Must be even merrier and more things to see and buy!
That's all for my great weekend. Oh, it's starting of another working week. But i can see my colleagues again! Good bye my weekend, see you my horrible weekday!!
That's all for now! \''\(^_^/''/
Tuesday, 13 July 2010
老样子
日子还是老样子。
每天日复一日，上班-吃饭-放工-吃饭-睡觉，再循环那些宅宅的日子。
星期一倒数周末，期待周末出游去；
每天想要怎样开心点，自由点的挣钱；
继续这样过日子，大概会很快老化。呵呵。
周末最开心。
可以不上班，不做肉，只做我喜欢的事情。
包括美容、休息、煮饭、出游去。
上上上个周末2个人花了马币46/新币20看了两部好电影- 叶问前传；knight and day. 还坐couple seat, 好划算，毕竟新币20两个人只能在周末看1部戏。
上上个周末把我生平第一次的演唱会给了在云星剧场开唱的任贤齐，没太大惊喜，普通。
上个周末花了少少钱，买了好东西给我的厨房（当然陆续期待更多的厨房用具--等我有自己的家再买，和给他的领带。
这个周末要和同事们去马六甲走透透！
下个周末我要做泡菜! YUM YUM!
想到周末，突然活了起来。
原来周日，我是死的。
钱没挣多少，却老是想买房子，去旅行
怎么办呢？
这样下去，脑袋会越来越不灵活...
我的想法统统太负面了...
在英国的那段日子最好...
压力是有，日子一样过很快，但放假就是旅行去...
我就是不能说服我自己，那样的日子早已离我远去...
算算，我已回国1年了！！！！！！天啊！
人家说: 若不能避免，就尽情享受.
可我就是无法享受嘛~~~
上次呼吁了，怎么没有有钱人要娶我 >_<
脑袋越来越笨拙。
买了这么多地方的飞机票，现在才知道原来统统都凶多吉少。
老板娘啊，放过我，好啊？
btw, 我渐渐相信什么叫做8字不合。
她可以跟每个人都很合，唯独你...
8月曼谷，90%去不成。
11月香港，假是批了，我死死都去！
11月槟城，求求你，让我拿2天假回家吧！
2月KK, 新年拿2次假，看来凶多吉少！
4月巴哩岛，4天假，有一点点的多，希望到时通融通融。
这些都是老板娘任职前/刚来时订的机票，
知道她的pattern后我就再也不敢订机票了，所有AA,JETSTAR,TIGER的网站都不敢进了....
haizzzzZzzzZZzz
剥夺了我人生最期待的日子，生活怎能快活？！
我才发现，我自己真的很在意annual leave，可以去旅行！！！！
每天日复一日，上班-吃饭-放工-吃饭-睡觉，再循环那些宅宅的日子。
星期一倒数周末，期待周末出游去；
每天想要怎样开心点，自由点的挣钱；
继续这样过日子，大概会很快老化。呵呵。
周末最开心。
可以不上班，不做肉，只做我喜欢的事情。
包括美容、休息、煮饭、出游去。
上上上个周末2个人花了马币46/新币20看了两部好电影- 叶问前传；knight and day. 还坐couple seat, 好划算，毕竟新币20两个人只能在周末看1部戏。
上上个周末把我生平第一次的演唱会给了在云星剧场开唱的任贤齐，没太大惊喜，普通。
上个周末花了少少钱，买了好东西给我的厨房（当然陆续期待更多的厨房用具--等我有自己的家再买，和给他的领带。
这个周末要和同事们去马六甲走透透！
下个周末我要做泡菜! YUM YUM!
想到周末，突然活了起来。
原来周日，我是死的。
钱没挣多少，却老是想买房子，去旅行
怎么办呢？
这样下去，脑袋会越来越不灵活...
我的想法统统太负面了...
在英国的那段日子最好...
压力是有，日子一样过很快，但放假就是旅行去...
我就是不能说服我自己，那样的日子早已离我远去...
算算，我已回国1年了！！！！！！天啊！
人家说: 若不能避免，就尽情享受.
可我就是无法享受嘛~~~
上次呼吁了，怎么没有有钱人要娶我 >_<
脑袋越来越笨拙。
买了这么多地方的飞机票，现在才知道原来统统都凶多吉少。
老板娘啊，放过我，好啊？
btw, 我渐渐相信什么叫做8字不合。
她可以跟每个人都很合，唯独你...
8月曼谷，90%去不成。
11月香港，假是批了，我死死都去！
11月槟城，求求你，让我拿2天假回家吧！
2月KK, 新年拿2次假，看来凶多吉少！
4月巴哩岛，4天假，有一点点的多，希望到时通融通融。
这些都是老板娘任职前/刚来时订的机票，
知道她的pattern后我就再也不敢订机票了，所有AA,JETSTAR,TIGER的网站都不敢进了....
haizzzzZzzzZZzz
剥夺了我人生最期待的日子，生活怎能快活？！
我才发现，我自己真的很在意annual leave，可以去旅行！！！！
Monday, 28 June 2010
down :(
恩...最近的事情可以很简单地说，自己却好像复杂化。
简单的说，工作不是很愉快，感觉很受委屈地，在同事面前忍不住泪儿。
真的觉得自己很没用，就是不能受一点委屈和责备，我脸皮很薄，也很好胜。
就是不爽上司，但是我会忍下去，并告诉自己我很爱她，她才会好好地爱我。
今天，她果然跟我道歉，对星期五的事情道歉，我明白她的压力。
所以，我也放开了，希望自己努力点，把自己的事情做好。
希望她会爱我多点，给我点支持，不然我真的很难在政治里生存下去...
话说，每天12个小时都活在心机累累的办公室中，我很辛苦...
我是真的希望自己能够不工作，或是在0政治的地方工作，发白日梦，对吧？
这样的生活，让我好累好累，想出国去玩，却不能拿假，实在痛苦... >_<
到底我可以能够活得心空自由却无需担心收入和花费吗？
却找不到一个对的方法来面对自己的生活．．．
有没有有钱人看上我，不然就来一份零政治，无压力又享受的高薪工作吧~
还有能够让我随时拿假去玩的工作~~！
ＢＴＷ，太岁老爷真得很坏咯 :(
心情down :(
大大声喊：我要快点变有钱人／嫁给有钱人 ！！
简单的说，工作不是很愉快，感觉很受委屈地，在同事面前忍不住泪儿。
真的觉得自己很没用，就是不能受一点委屈和责备，我脸皮很薄，也很好胜。
就是不爽上司，但是我会忍下去，并告诉自己我很爱她，她才会好好地爱我。
今天，她果然跟我道歉，对星期五的事情道歉，我明白她的压力。
所以，我也放开了，希望自己努力点，把自己的事情做好。
希望她会爱我多点，给我点支持，不然我真的很难在政治里生存下去...
话说，每天12个小时都活在心机累累的办公室中，我很辛苦...
我是真的希望自己能够不工作，或是在0政治的地方工作，发白日梦，对吧？
这样的生活，让我好累好累，想出国去玩，却不能拿假，实在痛苦... >_<
到底我可以能够活得心空自由却无需担心收入和花费吗？
却找不到一个对的方法来面对自己的生活．．．
有没有有钱人看上我，不然就来一份零政治，无压力又享受的高薪工作吧~
还有能够让我随时拿假去玩的工作~~！
ＢＴＷ，太岁老爷真得很坏咯 :(
心情down :(
大大声喊：我要快点变有钱人／嫁给有钱人 ！！
Wednesday, 2 June 2010
虎年衰事一箩箩
心情好差哦...
原来我还是习惯向平面银幕诉苦...
今天，高跟鞋的鞋跟断了。
好伤心，因为这只是我第3次穿它而已。
面子书上，我说：
‘戏剧里，高跟鞋的鞋跟断了，有时候会有白马王子拯救美女的情节出现；
现实里，鞋跟断了，只代表这是今年一箩箩衰事的其中一件罢了，没有大不了！’
确实如此，今天同事们还猛评我离开FR组的唯一创作...
因为大规模的生产出现了很多问题...
我想，确实为难他们了...
虽然我明白，确确实实是我的错，
但眼泪就是很想留下来，
但，我控制了。
还算有成长吧。
今年的衰事真的很多，
拿假老板娘会多多问题，多多意见，甚至擅自决定我8月不必去曼谷了！
老板娘根本不把我的实验室放在眼里，他人的，她可以用3个小时来细细讨论每一个细节，
我的实验室只用了10分钟来决定一切！
虽然我的规模比较小，但也太明显她不重视我吧？
小小的事件还包括大热天，她放我一个人走路回去公司，虽然只是１２分钟的路程．
算了，投诉无用。
还是保持积极的态度，期望明天会更好，期望我的Ｒ＆Ｄ室进行顺利，然后做让老板们骄傲的作品出来...
希望我可以坚持并待上2年！
虽然每天开始抗拒去上班，我相信现在只是过渡期...
正面思考~~！！
还有衰的事，上次我订的飞机票竟然定错日期，无端端花了额外１７２块 :(
还有还有很多呢～～！！
不说了!!
我要看书去~！
原来我还是习惯向平面银幕诉苦...
今天，高跟鞋的鞋跟断了。
好伤心，因为这只是我第3次穿它而已。
面子书上，我说：
‘戏剧里，高跟鞋的鞋跟断了，有时候会有白马王子拯救美女的情节出现；
现实里，鞋跟断了，只代表这是今年一箩箩衰事的其中一件罢了，没有大不了！’
确实如此，今天同事们还猛评我离开FR组的唯一创作...
因为大规模的生产出现了很多问题...
我想，确实为难他们了...
虽然我明白，确确实实是我的错，
但眼泪就是很想留下来，
但，我控制了。
还算有成长吧。
今年的衰事真的很多，
拿假老板娘会多多问题，多多意见，甚至擅自决定我8月不必去曼谷了！
老板娘根本不把我的实验室放在眼里，他人的，她可以用3个小时来细细讨论每一个细节，
我的实验室只用了10分钟来决定一切！
虽然我的规模比较小，但也太明显她不重视我吧？
小小的事件还包括大热天，她放我一个人走路回去公司，虽然只是１２分钟的路程．
算了，投诉无用。
还是保持积极的态度，期望明天会更好，期望我的Ｒ＆Ｄ室进行顺利，然后做让老板们骄傲的作品出来...
希望我可以坚持并待上2年！
虽然每天开始抗拒去上班，我相信现在只是过渡期...
正面思考~~！！
还有衰的事，上次我订的飞机票竟然定错日期，无端端花了额外１７２块 :(
还有还有很多呢～～！！
不说了!!
我要看书去~！
Tuesday, 1 June 2010
IT'S JUNE.
So, it's June.
Trying my best to keep at least a post a month for my updates.
May is passing very fast indeed. I have been preparing my company dinner and dance since early of May. Had my facial, done my cosmetic,clothes,shoes,accesories shopping, had haircut blah blah blah. Women always take long time to prepare days before a grant and important event such as dinner and dance, wedding dinner and worst - own wedding. Haha. but it all worth the money and time invested when you are beautiful and there it makes us feel more confident and delightful.
Other than that, working life is as usual. BUT, i have tougher days in companies. Nasty colleagues from other dept make me a better EQ person. NOW, my manager is someone harder to please. She is very soft, motherly and caring person, so everyone is praising her. On the other side, she can be very workaholic, giaw (stingy aka kedekut), aunty behaviour and worst stop me (and other colleagues) from taking leave!
She has 3 kids and she tries to go back at 6pm everyday to fetch her youngest child. However, she did come back during weekends to finish her works and send emails at 11pm. She can warm up the cold dish that I commented. She makes us rojak. She is a soft spoken lady which never scold us but also keep nagging and chasing for something. She is just like another mother of us.
On the other side, she is always wearing two masks. Slowly, I realised she wears a mask almost everyday. She also likes to 'poh' ppl as in having sweet talks to whoever have values to her. So, I stop talking so much to her. Cause I dont like ppl being so JIA! Then, when she gets familiar with everyone, she starts being sarcastic (esp to me!) and control many things, e.g. my annual leave.
I bought bangkok air tickets last nov to travel in August due to cheap tickets. But now, the bangkok is simply a mess and hence I almost give up. YOG is heating up the whole singapore and my company is doing something for them that need almost all staff from ground to managerial level. I was called to give details which means I will be on duty, most likely. However, schedules have yet released.
Here, she stops me from taking leave even though the duty roaster is not out and dunno if my holiday crashed. That's fine. I understand.
Then, I know her style of working so I quickly apply my HK trip in coming NOV as soon as I have booked the tickets. HR asked if I need to apply the leave so early, I answered: 'here we have different style of working, sure I have to apply first!'
Predictably, she asked if I REALLY NEED to take leave in NOV (during deepavali)! WTH.
'YES, I have already booked the air tickets'. Come on, only 3.5 days loh.
Then, I dun talk to her anymore. Silent... and soon, I received a notification email that she has approved the leave.
Actually I have booked another trip to go back Penang in the same month, I think I have to give up the trip. Unlikely she will let me go to PG :(
Sienz. I will try hard not to take leave and my plant has not up OR not much issue in the new plant so I have excuse to go back PG during HAJI!
Then, I just knew that she also asked the old chef in my company not to take leave, even though he is planning to take medical leave... She is too workaholic sometimes.
Anyway, I also receive pressure from her cause she is a very gan jiong ppl that making everyone so ganjiong and stress in my dept. Some have to really split into 2-3 in order to finish the task given by the tight timeline.
Well...Working is always not easy in SG. The best is she has to fetch her youngest child earlier and so I usually have no prob to go back at 6pm! God blesssSssSsss
Hope i can stay at least 2 years in this company to earn enough of experience, money and exposure for better career prospect :D
Gambateh~~~!!!
Arh, went back to PG during Vesak long weekend. Refreshen!!
Hmm, 31 Dec is my grandparents 50th wedding anniversary, anything special for them???
June...nothing much I guess. One K session with poly year 1 classmates...
Still...like to stay home after working to replenish my energy and love for life.
Hope June will be better~~!!
Trying my best to keep at least a post a month for my updates.
May is passing very fast indeed. I have been preparing my company dinner and dance since early of May. Had my facial, done my cosmetic,clothes,shoes,accesories shopping, had haircut blah blah blah. Women always take long time to prepare days before a grant and important event such as dinner and dance, wedding dinner and worst - own wedding. Haha. but it all worth the money and time invested when you are beautiful and there it makes us feel more confident and delightful.
Other than that, working life is as usual. BUT, i have tougher days in companies. Nasty colleagues from other dept make me a better EQ person. NOW, my manager is someone harder to please. She is very soft, motherly and caring person, so everyone is praising her. On the other side, she can be very workaholic, giaw (stingy aka kedekut), aunty behaviour and worst stop me (and other colleagues) from taking leave!
She has 3 kids and she tries to go back at 6pm everyday to fetch her youngest child. However, she did come back during weekends to finish her works and send emails at 11pm. She can warm up the cold dish that I commented. She makes us rojak. She is a soft spoken lady which never scold us but also keep nagging and chasing for something. She is just like another mother of us.
On the other side, she is always wearing two masks. Slowly, I realised she wears a mask almost everyday. She also likes to 'poh' ppl as in having sweet talks to whoever have values to her. So, I stop talking so much to her. Cause I dont like ppl being so JIA! Then, when she gets familiar with everyone, she starts being sarcastic (esp to me!) and control many things, e.g. my annual leave.
I bought bangkok air tickets last nov to travel in August due to cheap tickets. But now, the bangkok is simply a mess and hence I almost give up. YOG is heating up the whole singapore and my company is doing something for them that need almost all staff from ground to managerial level. I was called to give details which means I will be on duty, most likely. However, schedules have yet released.
Here, she stops me from taking leave even though the duty roaster is not out and dunno if my holiday crashed. That's fine. I understand.
Then, I know her style of working so I quickly apply my HK trip in coming NOV as soon as I have booked the tickets. HR asked if I need to apply the leave so early, I answered: 'here we have different style of working, sure I have to apply first!'
Predictably, she asked if I REALLY NEED to take leave in NOV (during deepavali)! WTH.
'YES, I have already booked the air tickets'. Come on, only 3.5 days loh.
Then, I dun talk to her anymore. Silent... and soon, I received a notification email that she has approved the leave.
Actually I have booked another trip to go back Penang in the same month, I think I have to give up the trip. Unlikely she will let me go to PG :(
Sienz. I will try hard not to take leave and my plant has not up OR not much issue in the new plant so I have excuse to go back PG during HAJI!
Then, I just knew that she also asked the old chef in my company not to take leave, even though he is planning to take medical leave... She is too workaholic sometimes.
Anyway, I also receive pressure from her cause she is a very gan jiong ppl that making everyone so ganjiong and stress in my dept. Some have to really split into 2-3 in order to finish the task given by the tight timeline.
Well...Working is always not easy in SG. The best is she has to fetch her youngest child earlier and so I usually have no prob to go back at 6pm! God blesssSssSsss
Hope i can stay at least 2 years in this company to earn enough of experience, money and exposure for better career prospect :D
Gambateh~~~!!!
Arh, went back to PG during Vesak long weekend. Refreshen!!
Hmm, 31 Dec is my grandparents 50th wedding anniversary, anything special for them???
June...nothing much I guess. One K session with poly year 1 classmates...
Still...like to stay home after working to replenish my energy and love for life.
Hope June will be better~~!!
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